Each child is unique with unique needs, too. Some children need only this much to feel loved while others need extra amount of tender loving care. So, I would not say "I love my children equally."
Although we have regular family time, my husband and I always see to it that we date our children individually.
Naomi is the middle child. She is very different from her big brother and little sister. She is very sweet and has her own love language which is also different from her other siblings. If she is a teapot, she's a big one. It takes a large amount of tea to fill her but she can also fill a lot of tea cups when she starts pouring.
I just love having tea time with her.